My passion and expertise is helping single men and women navigate the dating process with purpose and clarity. I feel so grateful to have discovered this as my life’s work --- and to be able to wake up every day and support my clients on their journey towards marriage.
A little background...
I earned my “PhD in Dating” by [miraculously] surviving years of dead-end relationships (Check out “Our Story”). And believe me, during that time, I couldn’t see an end in sight. I’d meet guys at singles mixers or get set up on blind dates, and while there would occasionally be some chemistry, I could just never seem to take the relationship to the next level. Before I knew it, I’d be back to square one---hoping, wishing and waiting for the right guy to come along.
At some point, I did some major introspection and critical observation of the dating world. I thought about my dating history. I looked around me and realized that far too often, we go through the motions of dating as if there’s a script we must follow in order to win over the other person. We worry about what they think of us, rather than considering how they make us feel about ourselves, how we “show up” in their presence, and how we make them feel on a date. We lose sight of our dreams for the future, lose touch with our values, and---unbeknownst to us---we turn dating into an emotional roller coaster of mind games that get us nowhere----except into a downward spiral of dead-end relationships and broken hearts.
Is it any wonder, then, that most of us are left feeling stuck and disheartened about the process?
Anyone who’s dated for long enough knows that it can be painfully dis-empowering. Having an objective voice (someone besides a friend, parent or sibling, who come with their own biases and/or agendas,) to empower and equip you with relationship-building tools, can be a game-changer for reaching your goals.
The purpose of Breakthrough Dating is to help you explore your relationship with the dating process. You’ll identify your blind-spots and patterns in your dating history, envision and re-focus on what's important to you, and be able to easily identify the type of person who would likely be a great match for you, so you can make great things happen when s/he comes along.
I invite you to join me on the Breakthrough Dating journey and discover the benefits of dating from a place of strength, wholeness, and insight. Trust me, you’ll be so glad you did.